By Dave Allen
[dropcap]I[/dropcap]f you are a married Christian man and are having troubles with your Christian sex life, don’t fret. This is actually not that uncommon. Years of ignorance and false knowledge have turned sex for Christians into some sort of taboo. It’s not that we know so little, but rather that we know so much that simply isn’t so. It shouldn’t be that way. Christian sex should be encouraged and enjoyed by both you and your wife.
Now usually when there is a problem in the bedroom, it is kept hush-hush. However, keeping it all under wraps will only affect the marriage in a negative way. The only way to solve any problem is to talk about it. Many of these problems are born out of the battle between the flesh and spirit. It is fascinating to delve into the mind of a married Christian man and study the internal conflicts between pleasing God and pleasing his wife sexually. Finding the balance between the two has been one of the most difficult jobs these men face, albeit unnecessary.
Christian men are well acquainted with this struggle. They want to know how to satisfy their wives and themselves, but wonder if Christian sex allows for turning up the heat inside the bedroom. There is no shame in fanning the flames as sex is as natural as the rising and setting of the sun.But what can you do if you are not that well versed in this area, as most Christian husbands are not? Well basically, you can research. No I do not mean renting out porn movies or the like, but read. There are an outstanding number of books on this topic that can guide you in your journey to exploring the physical joys of Christian sex.
These books are written by Christians for Christians. They speak from first hand experience and discuss similar concerns so you will know that you are in good hands. It is also comforting to know that you are not alone. These books are scripturally sound. While great care is taken in being technically correct and explicit in wording and images, you will be glad to know that you will not encounter anything pornographic in nature.
When you read these helpful books, you will have a greater understanding of yourself and your wife and you will be able to develop a deeper and more intimate relationship between the two of you. Your skills in the bedroom will also be enhanced, as well as your confidence and performance. Christian sex will no longer be the same, mindless routine it once was for you. It will be as good as God had intended it to be, passionate, intimate and amazing.
These books will bring you closer to one another and you might even feel like it is your honeymoon all over again, but this time even better. Christian sex is as good as it gets so learn to enjoy what God has created and take pleasure in it as you were meant to from the beginning.
Dave Allen is a Christian author deeply committed to sharing solid scriptural information and resources with his readers. For additonal information and tips on enhancing your sex life using scripturally sound instruction and techniques please visit http://www.bettersex4christianstoday.com