Indeed, my biggest flaw could also be my greatest asset. Now that I’ve piqued your curiosity, you might be wondering what on earth I’m referring to. Let me give you another clue: it’s often a rusty orange or peach color, and it’s found in my mouth. Yes, I’m talking about my tongue—the very part of me that can be both a blessing and a curse. On one hand, overeating and speaking without thinking are flaws that stem from it. But on the other hand, when I “speak the truth in love,” this same tongue becomes one of my most powerful assets.
Sometimes, I hold back my thoughts, even when they’re positive and could uplift someone. I might think about how well a friend shared their heart or expressed difficult emotions during a tough time, but if I never voice those thoughts, they might never know. They could hesitate to speak up next time, missing the opportunity to encourage someone else who really needs it.
We all need encouragement, and when I choose to share the positive thoughts I’ve kept inside, I’m doing something good. This is unlike those times when I blurt out the first thing that comes to mind without considering all the facts. Those words can cause unintended hurt if I’m not careful. That’s when I need to slow down and THINK—wait for the full story before jumping in with my two cents.
As for the overeating, that’s become easier to manage lately. If I want a good night’s sleep, I have to avoid anything with even a hint of caffeine, no matter what time it is. I’ve learned the hard way that even a single gulp of coffee or a tiny square of Dove chocolate can keep me up all night. And don’t even get me started on chocolate—I have a love-hate relationship with it. A friend once told me that 9 AM is too early for chocolate, to which I replied, “You’re not a real chocoholic!” Over time, though, I’ve cut back on chocolate, reserving it for special (and sometimes sleepless) occasions.
These days, I find it easier to choose grilled meats and veggies over fried options, though I’ll admit I indulged in some fried shrimp the other night and savored every bite.
We could talk about many other flaws, but I wanted to focus on this one because it can also be a great asset in our lives. If you think about it, your “flaw” might have a positive side too.
Marijo Phelps was rescued from nine years of professing atheism and now lives with her husband in the heart of a mountain meadow. She is passionate about sharing the good news of God’s redemptive plan for our lives through her writing.
